We’ve all judged someone and labeled someone.
We’ve all been judged and had someone label us.
I’m going to tackle a few of the labels that I feel we need to stop using:
Being an addict is actually very serious. Naming someone an addict just because they struggle with something may actually prevent them for realizing they need help or they may feel shame.
Just because someone votes differently than you doesn’t mean that they are defined by their political party.
People are so much more than how they vote or what party they associate with.
I’ve heard this insult thrown around by all kinds of people. Usually they mean it as an insult when someone is being overly sensitive about something. While, I do think that there is a time and a place in which you need to learn to take criticism well and hear people out, just because someone gets touchy is not a reason to label them a “snowflake”.
They may be dealing with deep rooted issues from their past and calling them names is not going to help them uncover those issues and start to get past them.
People are more than just their bodies. Labeling someone based off their body image can be hurtful and body shaming.
They actually may be dealing with loving themselves, they may be anorexic, or they may just have actual health issues.
Again, people’s sexuality doesn’t define them.
I’ve heard people use this as an insult, “Oh, you’re so gay”
Using this as an insult suggests that there is something wrong with people who may consider themselves gay.
Let’s stop only seeing the color of our skin and allowing that to separate us. Your worth is not found in your skin color. Your skin color does not say who you are. There is more to a person than just their skin color.
We need to stop referring to women with names like these. Honestly, it’s obnoxious that we have a double standard where it’s okay for men to sleep around but if a woman does, she is labeled as a slut or a whore.
We need to stop with the saying, “You’re so OCD, you just cleaned your room” or, “You’re always so depressing to be around. Stop it”.
These are really serious illnesses, and labeling someone as OCD just because they like something a particular way or labeling someone as depressed or “depresso” because they seem sad over a death of a relative or a situation, doesn’t mean they are struggling with these illnesses.
It also may make them feel shame if they are struggling with these issues.
States have started legalizing marijuana and it’s common to socially drink. There are medical benefits to using marijuana. Just because someone is using marijuana does not automatically make them a druggie. They may have cancer or have deep rooted anxiety. Just as a person drinking alcohol doesn’t make them a alcoholic. Labeling them as such may prevent them from realizing they have an addiction and thus getting help.
Dyslexia, ADD, ADHD, Autism, Down Syndrome, Aspergers, etc are serious disabilities.
Calling someone “retarded” just because they may struggle with a disability or have a different way of learning is actually really un-loving.
We are all beautiful, and different in our own ways.
Often times we call friends, “retarded” when we want to call them stupid or think they’ve done something stupid that we think was clear.
It is used to take away peoples worth and make them feel less than.
- Boys will be boys:
This one isn’t so much a label as a saying. Am I the only one who thinks it’s annoying when people go, “Oh, boys will boys. Can’t change them”.
Excuse me. No.
If a boy messes up it is the parents job to raise and correct the wrong type of behavior.
It should not always be blamed on girl to be “better”
When we allow labels to dictate how we see others, we miss out on the chance to truly know and see the person for who they really are. We miss out on seeing the beauty of the differences in each of us.
More and more I pray that I can see people from the eyes of God. To love people with no boundaries. To not let differences define who people are.