Love is found at the Cross

I don’t know where you are at right now. Maybe you’re happily married, engaged or just started dating the greatest person. Or maybe you are on the other side of the spectrum and Valentines day is not the greatest day for you this year. Or you could be in the middle, you could be single or in a relationship and just feel that Valentines Day is way too commercialized(you aren’t alone!). 
I want you guys to know that for years Valentines day was super hard for me. I either had memories of an abusive boyfriend or of a boyfriend who wouldn’t celebrate it because he thought it was way too, “sexual” and instead would lecture me on it. 
I get it. 
This post is for you guys.
I just want you to know that Valentines day isn’t what defines love. 
You are loved & known. You are seen & and heard. 

Valentines Day!
It’s right around the corner….

For months supermarkets have had aisles stocked with teddy bears of all sizes holding hearts that say, “I love you” along with heart shaped boxes containing candy of all flavors and sizes.
Flower shops are quickly gathering orders together, and preparing for the Valentines Day rush of loved ones sending flowers to one another. Restaurants are also bracing themselves for the crowd of people preparing to descend upon them on Valentines Day evening.

So, ladies and gentlemen, what exactly is love?

Is love when your significant other brings home flowers to you?
Is love when your significant other brings you chocolate?
Is love when you have sex?
Is love when your significant other brings home a teddy bear bigger than Mars with a heart that says, “Love”?
Is  love when you get up early to cook breakfast for your loved one?

The answer to all of these is no.
These are all things that you do for someone because you want to show them love or appreciate them.
They are actions that show people that you love them.

But, they aren’t love necessarily.

In John 3:16 the Bible tells us,  For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

How many of us would give up our children for the world?
How many of us would give up our loved ones for the world?

For God so loved…..

Your sister.
Your brother.
Your parents.
Your aunt and uncle.
Your cousins.
Your best friend.
Your husband/wife.
Your boyfriend/girlfriend.
Your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend.
Your teacher.
Your mailman.
The waiter/waitress at your favorite restaurant.
The politicians in D.C.
The Olympic athletes.
The world.

God gave us His one and only son. That whosoever may believe in Jesus, may have eternal life.
The God who created us, who knows our thoughts even before we speak them. Who knows not just the good about us, but the bad too.
He gave up his one and only son.
Jesus died on the cross for the entire worlds sins.

Society has commercialized love to mean that it comes in a “heart” or that love somehow goes with a certain day.

True love is found on the cross and is found daily.

Happy Valentines Day guys!

Elizabeth Louise

Side Note: Ever since I went to see The Greatest Showman I can’t stop listening to the soundtrack on Spotify. So I decided to buy it to listen to it in my car as well. Anyone else addicted to the soundtrack?


The inclusive and expansive love of Jesus

I want to be found sitting around a campfire with barefooted refugees and so-called whores or prostitutes, the LGBTQ crowd. Maybe roasting a few s’mores, except in my case I like to put Reese’s on my s’mores(it’s delicious trust me). 

Anyway, I want to be sitting around a campfire with a whole variety of people deemed “un-worthy” or often looked down upon by the church but loved by Jesus.

I want my love to be so inclusive and expansive that it tells people about my God not the other way around. I don’t want it to exclude people so that it creates barriers or walls and doesn’t give opportunity to tell people about Jesus.

Jesus’s love is inclusive and expansive. 

The woman at the well. The woman caught in adultery. The healing of a man on the sabbath. 

Jesus continued to break down barriers, guys. He continually reached out and included people, saying, “I know you’ve done x,y,z but follow and trust me” Jesus continued to dish out grace explaining that, we all mess up. We all need forgiveness and grace.

Lately….I’ve been thinking. What areas of my life am I putting up barriers and not being inclusive? We all have them. I have my areas and they may be different than yours. But let’s continue to be inclusive and expansive with our love and grace. Let’s let grace and love flow out like a giant kicking  down a door. 


You are so much more than that “label”

Admit it.

We’ve all been labeled or labeled someone at some point…… Whether it’s by our physical appearance, or religious affiliation, or our skin color. Here are some examples of labels:

  1. too skinny, too fat,
  2. too emotional, depressed, talks too fast, quiet, shy
  3. geek, nerd, smart, stupid, idiot, retard, jock, hipster
  4. woman, man
  5. straight, gay,
  6. liberal, conservative, democrat, republican
  7. christian, muslim, catholic
  8. black, white, purple, green, etc

In some way or another society has given us labels. Friends, can we stop?

When we label others, we are giving them a title. we are isolating them and excluding them. when we label others, we are not seeing them as they were made in christ.




Genesis 1:27 says, “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”

God has created each one of us. He has given us immense value in that we are created in HIS image. When we use those labels as insults, or in a way that prevents us from seeing other people as being created in the image of God it becomes a problem.

Instead of seeing each other through the lenses of labels given to us by society, how about we start appreciating and praising the wonder things about one another? Let us not allow the labels to prevent us from loving on others. Let us not be so blinded by these labels that we forget to view each other as being created by the same God we were.

Let’s all spread a little more joy, peace and love and stop with the labels.



❤ Elizabeth Louise